Sunday, November 3, 2013

 向日葵公主是在河東岸邊遇見驢的。驢是黑色的,但白嘴白肚白蹄。

  公主想過河去,河西的城堡裡有等著娶她的王子。

  河不算深,但她穿著一身美麗的嫁衣,她怕河水會浸濕她的衣裙。

  驢說:“想讓我馱你過去嗎?”

  “你能保證不弄濕我的衣裙嗎?”

  “不能。”

  “那就算了,謝謝,”

  “如果他不來呢?”

  “那我就多等等。”

  良久,無人過來,公主獨坐岸邊,黯然嘆息。

  “不。”公主依然拒絕,但悄然打量著驢。

  “是你希望我讓你馱我過去。”公主回答。

  “那你希望誰來馱你過去?”

  “我要嫁的王子。”

  “我馱你過去,你吻吻我,焉知我不能變成王子?”

  “你以為你是青蛙王子?”

  “我是美驢王子。”

  “驢倒是驢,王子就不必勉強了。”

  “你為何不想讓我幫你渡河?”

  “我怕你弄濕我的嫁衣。”

  “我想不會的。”

  “為什麼不會?”

  “因為現在我想馱你過去。”

  “哦?我該相信嗎?”

  “你為什麼不相信?”

  “你說的話我不敢隨便信。”

  “我說的話你都不信?”

  “你說的話我才不信。”

  “我說的話你真不信?!”

  “難道我應該信?”

  “難道你不該信?”

  “我信我自己的判斷。”

  “好吧,那你慢慢判斷吧!”

  ……

  天色已晚,公主與驢相對無言。涼意襲來,公主攏了攏衣服。

  驢打破沉默:“冷嗎?”

  “冷。”

  “讓我馱你過河吧,無論我是否弄濕你的衣裙我都會贈你三句愛的箴言。”

  “那我該怎樣報答你?”公主問。

  “如果你衣裙不濕就帶我回家吧。”

  公主接受了驢的建議。

  公主騎上了驢背。臨行前驢鄭重對她說:“記住我背著你時你不能流淚,你的淚會令我不堪重負。”

  公主說她記得,然後也鄭重地對驢說:“記住一定不要弄濕我的衣裙,否則我會立即放棄你的背負。”

  驢邁步向河中走去。

  “你以前馱過女孩過河嗎?”公主問。

  “當然。”驢坦然答道。

  “她們的衣裙濕了嗎?”

  “第一個女孩的沒濕,以後的都濕了。”

  “第一個女孩帶你回家了嗎?”

  “沒有,否則我不會再遇見別的女孩。”

  “看來你遇見的女孩很多。”

  “算上你的話,應該有15、6個了。”

  公主笑道:“你是第30頭想馱我過河的驢。”

  “呵呵。”驢但笑無語。
公主忽然想起驢承諾的愛的箴言,驢答應告訴她第一句:“無論男人還是女人,只有在初戀時愛的是別人,以後戀愛時愛的都是自己。”

  驢緩步輕行,果然很平穩,公主放心了,摟著驢的脖子,覺得溫暖。

  “喜歡我背你過河嗎?”驢問。

  “喜歡。”公主微笑承認。

  “我也喜歡這樣背著你,希望就這樣一直走下去。”驢的聲音於溫情中透著憂郁,聽起來像嘆息。

  風與驢的話語不時吻上公主的面頰,公主含笑悄然入睡。

  她做了一個公主常做的夢:她吻了驢,然後驢變成了王子,從此王子與公主快樂地生活在一起。

  當她醒來時看見驢依然緩步輕行,自己的衣裙分毫不濕。芳心竊喜,於是吻了驢——驢能因此變成王子嗎?

  沒有。

  原來童話就是童話,驢不是王子,等著娶她的王子在河西的城堡裡。她愣愣地想,一滴淚自目中滴落。

  淚落在驢身上。

  似突然被灼傷般,驢猛地揚蹄嘶鳴,激起浪花千丈。

  公主的衣裙濕了。“為什麼?”公主問。

  “我跟你說過。”驢面無表情。

  公主也記起了她當初對驢說的話。

  於是她一言不發,自驢背上下來,獨自淌水向對岸走去。

  驢沒做任何挽留或解釋,也自轉身回去,徑直走向河東——那裡又有個姑娘在等著誰馱她過河。

  依稀年輕,依稀美麗,她也有一身好看的嫁衣。

  “愛情是唯一的,但愛人不是唯一的。”驢忽然說道:“這是第二句箴言。”

  公主淚落成河,河水冷徹心肺。

  終於走到了對岸,她美麗的衣裙已經徹底濕透。

  她無力地在岸邊坐下,像只小動物般抱膝蜷縮著黯然哭泣。

  還是寒冷。

  一只白兔走到她身邊:“公主,下次我陪你渡河。”

  “謝謝,”公主把白兔摟在懷中:“不必了,現在我只是需要一點溫度。”

  驢已經走回了河東岸邊。

  公主忽然記起還有一句箴言驢沒說,於是抬頭向河西望去:“請告訴我最後一句箴言,美驢。”

  驢冷冷看了她最後一眼,說: “我愛我的愛情。 ”然後向那等著渡河的女孩走去。

  你看懂了嗎?公主,王子,兔子,驢及三句箴言各代表什麼意思?

  解答:向日葵城堡裡的王子其實是這個女人的幻想,指女人想像中的老公

  女人想不做任何犧牲來得到未來的老公(不濕衣裙)

  中途遇到的驢是指在女人沒有找到中意的老公之前碰到的男人 之所以用驢,

  是說明中途的男人並不能讓女人滿意但卻有時能讓女人感動

  女人在對驢有所感動的時候猛然發現自己還要找更好的夢想中的老公

  所以,就落淚了

  女人不甘心,驢當然也不樂意

  不歡而散

  最後,女人卻只是委曲求全的找了兔子,目的只是取暖

  懂了吧???

  其實驢才是真正適合公主的男人

  道理很簡單,就是告誡人"安於現實"

  "無論男人還是女人,只有在初戀時愛的是別人,以後戀愛時愛的都是自己。"

  -----要學會愛別人

  "愛情是唯一的,但愛人不是唯一的。"

  不論男女,不管遇見誰,珍惜眼前的。不會有下一個才是好的,只有共同經營好

    Friday, May 6, 2011

    Happy Mother Day

    A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"

    "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."

    The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."

    God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."

    Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"

    God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."

    "And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"

    God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."

    "Who will protect me?"

    God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking it's life."

    "But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."

    God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."

    At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."

    "You will simply call her, 'Mom.'"


    Tuesday, February 8, 2011

    外婆

    婆婆,
    您知道吗?二舅的老虎奶开始生产了。工厂也开始运作了。看见二舅把老虎奶的成品装成一瓶一瓶的,真的替他开心,也为他感到骄傲。真希望,能有公司在背后支持把它对出市场。婆婆,请您保佑,让二舅成功。

    婆婆,
    您知道吗?弟弟在2011年一月九号结婚了。结婚照片中看见的他,好帅耶。而妈妈也就快升级当阿嫲了。我?当然也升级当叔叔啦。婆婆,请保佑他们幸福到永远。

    婆婆,
    您知道吗?妈妈的疗程完毕了。我觉得她生活得挺充实的。先忙完弟弟的婚礼,新年,您的大日子,当让少不了打麻将啦。婆婆,请您保佑她身体健健康康。

    婆婆,
    您知道吗?大舅开刀后身体也越来越壮了。告诉您一个秘密,大舅又开始毫无避讳的吃肉骨茶了。婆婆,请您去大舅梦里警告警告他一下吧。。。。。。

    婆婆,
    您知道吗?妮妮上了大学,在沙巴呢!请您保佑她学业进步。

    婆婆,
    您知道吗? 小姨家又在新年时被小偷进了。婆婆,请您给个万字让小姨中吧。。呵呵!

    婆婆,
    您知道吗?我们老板成功买了一块地。也准备发展了。有了老板的支持,发展商之梦也指日可待了!!婆婆,请保佑一切顺顺利利。

    婆婆,
    您会问我吗?我好像还没说说我自己。我很好, 一切都很顺利。请保佑我能以清晰的头脑去面对以下的每件事:
    1。www.wowalk.com的模式已成行,让我有能力去把它实现。
    2。redbuilder 能顺顺利利的发展下去。
    3。发展商公司能早日注册。
    4。还有,考试及格咯。。


    今天是您离开我们后的的第730天, 还是很老套的问您一句,您好吗?我知道您一定很好的。因为我们都很想念您。告诉您一件事哟,过几天就是您的大日子了,您就快搬进新家了。您一定很期待搬进新家吧!!呵呵,不说笑了。认真说一句,我很想您。

    您的外孙



    Friday, December 17, 2010

    THINGS I WANT THIS CHRISTMAS

    Dear Santa,

    I have been a good boy this year, so i don't think it is too much to ask you if you grant just some of these wishes this Christmas and beyond:

    1. Our new car number strike first prize in Magnum4d, Damacai and Sports Toto whenever i bet on it
    2. Our business expand, more and more project to come
    3. Get my house back from ex- girl friend smoothly and can be sold at higher price
    4. My mother healthy healthy
    5. My best friend- TPC stay pretty and happy
    6. Pass my Part III exam next year
    7. Be happy all the time

    Well, that it is all about. Thank you Santa!!

    Tuesday, July 20, 2010

    Girlfriend

    Saw my ex on my way back from hospital, and suddenly feel kind of relieve.

    However, it was weird, really weird, seeing her with her new guy.

    Not that I didn't expect her to move on of course. I mean, eventually we all move on. But what I didn't expect is that she managed to do so so quickly. Like, before we broke up.

    I guess that goes to show what an easily forgettable person I am. ;)

    The surprising thing is that I wasn't as bitter as I thought I might be. At least I didn't storm out in tears and crying to my mommy.

    We had our good times and I am content to let those four years we spent together be nothing but memories. Since there is a better man who can take care her the way which I couldn't at this moment, I guess I should feel happy for her. Not to say i am not feeling sad for her leave. Believe me, that was the most painful decision i had ever made and the moment i felt sad the most together with my tears. In life, we just have to know what others people needs and learn to let go something we love and move on to something we want in life.

    There is another reason why I am not feeling bitter - I too, have begun seeing someone new as of late.

    I am still in the process of getting to know her. She is an American, so I know we have our differences. But the good thing is that we are seeing each other a lot. In fact, over the pass three weeks, we spent almost every single day and night in the company of each other.

    Her name is Apple.

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    Full name Apple I PAD.

    Oh yes.

    There is nothing I desire more than coming home every night and lay together with her on the couch, hands on her shoulders, feeling her vibration as I touched the screen.

    I love you my Apple.



    Thursday, July 15, 2010

    The 522 days since you left us

    Dear Popo,
    Today is the 522 days of your passing. How are you doing up in heaven? I imagine you must have had lots of friends by now to keep you company. Heck, as I’m writing this, you might be playing cards with wa kong and Micheal Jackson.

    Just kidding. But seriously, how are things up there?

    Will you forgive me if i tell you i haven't been taking care of Mom very well? her health is getting bad. The pass fews week i have been in a bad situation. I haven’t been seeing Mom very often. She’s been wanting to talk to me, but I’m always hiding myself in the room to recover myself. I try my best k?

    Popo, there’s another thing I’d like to apologize for.

    I have not visited Dajiu for weeks after his heart operation. , I’m so sorry but I tried. I just wasn’t as good as you thought. I now have no confidence to do things like i used to do. i just want to be myself and try to figure out what's the next step i suppose to take. I have lose confident on trusting people.

    Popo, do you know that we have moved to Jenjarom? Didi and i are doing well. We set up a construction company and we completed fews projects last year. We made some money that we never ever thought it would be so much. I have got an offer in new architect firm which the new boss entrusted me a lots. It makes me sad that you were not here to witness these very proud moment and share the happiness in my life.

    I was under so much stress in the weeks leading up to the recent broke up with girlfriend. There were so many problems and I didn’t even sleep well for the pass 6 months. As i know that, this is the most important stage in our relationship and i have been silent for some period to see what is going to happen. In fact, i once thought- once it is crossed, it is either 天长地久或曾经拥有.Obviously, it become曾经拥有to me. Love is fragile, and not meant for test.

    But, don’t worry Popo, everything is okay now. I believe that with you looking at me, i can overcome all the problems.

    I miss you Popo. 522 days on, I still wish you were here. Guess the only way I’ll see you again is on the day I join you in heaven. I’ll make lots of KOPI O for you then.

    Please take good care of yourself and wa kong.

    love,

    your grandson


    Friday, June 12, 2009

    生命短促,睡少一点

    最近总觉得有手上很多东西不能如期完成。老实说,感到前所未有的压力。以往,总觉得自己能把压力控制的不错。虽有压力在身,但总能驾驽并把压力转成动力。但这一次,竟变得非常的颓废,做起事来总是心不在焉,也,欠少了一份动力。突然间发现到,原来当你越不能把东西好,你就会越来越碎弱,然后你会逃避,逃避在逃避。然后,你会什麽都做不了,最后迷恋上一样你能轻易完成的东西,然后你会一直从复从复得完成他来满足自己的满足感。仿佛一切都很好来骗自己。
    这些日子来,总在脑海里一直的想这一股压力是从哪儿来呢?总算有了一个结论, 这不是一股压力,是很多很多的压力。原来我的压力来自不能传注在完成一个任务。当我在进行一个任务时,脑再做,心且想着另一个任务。到后来没样可以很完美的完成,留下的一些手尾和错误为自己未来的时间增加了更多的工作,然后再为你现有的压力加上更多的负担。在接下来就变成以上的人了。
    那很多很多的压力从哪儿来呢?它们如下:
    1。和新加坡建筑师的和作不如意。很多很多时候,我们被逼为他们改来改去,不完善的设计抹屁股。在向他们要求他们的设计的detail图时,只会把责任堆给我们和找来身边的人给他们意见。 还有一招更厉害,三十六计,走为上计。谁说外国月亮比较圆?
    2。面对一个很烂和不会读图的承包商。总在害怕他们所建出了来的东西然后得再花时间扑救错误。
    3。得回答其它顾问的问题。(我总的很努力的向一班人解释这并不在我的工作范围。相信吗?我试过向承包商及发展商回答此问题8次,再一天内。拜托,不要再来了。
    4。另一个大工程要开标了。(这可是我有史以来面对最大的工程)。
    5。一间在家乡的独立式阳房的设计及建筑工程。
    6。一间在白沙罗的半独立式阳房设计及建筑工程。
    7。一间在快乐花园的半独立式阳房的设计。
    8。一间在kelana jaya的半独立式阳房的设计。
    9。忽烈了身边的人。
    10。准备明年的考试。
    11。等等
    所以,有了以下的决定:
    1。只可在同一时间里做一样东西,脑和心一起。
    2。不逃避,不做骗自己的东西。
    3。完美的完成一样工作。那怕影响另一个任务的近度。(应改不会影响很多吧)
    4。生命短促,睡少一点 来完成悬挂在心得东西。